Wednesday, April 05, 2006
its amazing how the society is changing
wow. weird thing to start a blog entry
but really.
whenever you are chatting with people you don't know.
they would always ask you those few questions.
name,age,height, weight and school.
and yes. the "MOST" important question to them
"do you have stead?"
so wheneverr you answer no.
there would be two ways the people would react
"sure anot" is the first kind of reaction.
and the second reaction is "so are you looking for one?"
to me what with the people who ask" sure or not"
you mean there are people out there who fake that they are single?
i mean who would have the time to crack such stupid jokes.
i cant even call this a joke.
and does it mean if you are single,
you must be looking for one?
HELLO! like i had said i am ONLY 17
must all 17 year old girls have what you guys call "relationship".
i mean yes! everyone wants to have a relationship
so that you can be with someone you like. etc.
i am not an exception, i admit.
but to me i think teenagers now a days are treating relationships like a hobby.
this is what you can see in our society now a days.
on the street wherever you are,
be it orchad road or what so ever
you see people holding hands, kissing, hugging,
showing off to the people that
"HEY WE ARE A COUPLE!"
they seem to enjoy the attention so much.
and the so called " COUPLES" seem so young.
you can even see two 12 year old kid kissing at the edge of the road.
i mean question yourselve
do you really think that you can find true love at the tender age of 12?
i mean yes there are few exceptions
like what, 1 in 1000.
so don you think getting in a relationship at a tender age of 12 is not appropiate.
and worst of all.
its amazing how girls out there can actually break off with their "boyfriend" (see that i quote the word "boyfriend") just today.
and the next few days, you see her with another guy, stranger.
kissing and hugging.
so do you mean to say that she fell in love again in such a short period of time?
anotherthing is amazing how guys would share among themselve.
which i totally find it ridiculous.
this girl can be with boy A for this month,
and the very next month they broke off
and the girl was seen to be with boy A's best friend soon after.
mixed feeling.
i mean cant the girl see that the guys are playing around. "sharing"
to me, there is really no right or wrong in having a relationship.
but whenever you want to have a relationship
you have to question yourselve
whether you really love the guy and is really serious.
or you just want the attention and the fun that comes with it.
i agree totally that we girls have to consider seriously before getting ourselve into a relationship
afterall we are always the vulnerable one.
you would never see a guy cry over a split
but you would always see girls pouring out gush of tears when it comes to such stuff.
anyway talking about relationships.
there are always these advices given
"find a person that you need, and not a person that you love"
"find a person who loves you more then you loves him"
to me i would always ponder on the 2nd advice
find the person who loves you more then you loves him.
don you find it ironical
what if your other half thinks this way too?
get wat i mean?
